Friday, June 22, 2018

Husband life

We've all heard about the dad life but what about the husband life? Yea a lot of us are  dads but we were husbands first. We went through the dating phase and then fall in love and then proposal stage and finally getting married to our wives. We do a lot for our wives that a lot of people don't realize. We open doors for them (at least I do since the day I met mine), we compliment them, we cook for them, we take care of them, even when their sick, help with household chores, kill spiders (I know I do since my wife has arachnid phobia) help with groceries, drive for them while they complain about our driving, lol. We pray for AND with them. We argue and make up and we do things that we never thought we would do for them (insert your own here! Lol) The woman that God gave us is a true blessing no matter what goes on between you two. Now when she asked you to get up in the middle of the night to see what that noise was (the cat getting a Lil wild!) Just remember, God sent her to you for a reason. What that may be, is part of His plan. So we'll just have to put up with it "til death do us part"!
Have a blessed and great weekend!

Monday, June 4, 2018

Judgement

We walked into Walmart to get groceries and the first thing I did was look at my wife and said "omg! Look at what she's wearing!" I did that without even thinking. I'm sure you do it as well, heck we all do because we're human. We judge one another because that's just how we are. No matter if you're black, white, yellow or whatever color. We judge someone with tattoos saying that they're dirty, how big they are because they're fat but yet we don't know their story. Maybe they had their tattoos before they really thought about it. Maybe the big person has a eating problem or a medical condition or can't lose it. You know someone who will judge you and still love you with all your imperfections? God! He doesn't care what you look like because he sees past the outside and sees your heart. That's what really counts. So next time you start to judge someone, stop for one second and think about it. They may be judging you as well.

Matthew 7 :: NIV. "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?"

Just some food for thought when you walk into a place and look around and start to "judge" someone!